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I would propose that bisexuality comes in an infinite number of varieties. And there are heterosexual people. However, I am also aware that for most, homoerotic feelings are often concealed behind many forms of defenses, cultural acceptability and much else. So they can be difficult to access for many who do possess them.

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To re-post from above.

I know a whole bunch of people who came through a crucible at the same time, we were part of the anarchist/left communist milieu in the SF Bay Area in the mid/late '70s. Bisexuality was put forth by many in that milieu as being the norm, and someone was deemed not truly liberated till acknowledging this "fact." I went through some of the same pressures in the anarchist/post-modernist Berkeley scene in the '90s. Anyone who cannot accept my heterosexuality can kindly fuck off.

In other words, wasn't like i haven't been in situations in which bisexuality was not only not only NOT proscribed but actively promoted and indeed promoted as a NORM.

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I understand; that's all been irrelevant to my journey...I've always been guided inwardly.

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Me too. It's still a fact that i was pressured.

To clarify, my "kindly fuck off remark" was in the context of what i experienced in those communities and may experience in dissent communities in the future. Not at all personally directed at either you or Iva.

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