Very interesting essay. These young men have so much to consider when sex is so available as in Tinder. I always told my son, now 21, have her text you what she wants to “do”. At least it’s in writing.
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Merrie,
By pregnancy plan, I mean what to do IF there is an unwanted pregnancy. Being on the pill is supposedly pregnancy prevention.
In my pregnancy prevention guidelines, everyone brings something to the table. It’s a two-party effort. This is something different.
In a pregnancy plan, the question would be: what if the girl has a hormone IUD and there is a pregnancy? What are the chances of complications and birth defects? How is that handed?
A pregnancy plan is: what would your parents try to make you do if you got pregnant? Would you be more inclined to have the child, or not?
Personally I prefer “slut” types of women — those who are looking for fun, who have multiple partners, and whose primary intent is experience and not attachment. I usually prefer the company of sexworkers to “ordinary” women.
So there is no way I’m going to be judging that. I am that person and I love being that person (despite my ardent loyalty).
But the whole point of my essay is that we are in special times when a young man can end up on probation or serving prison time for a date. I know one personally — one of the sweetest young guys I’ve ever met, serving two years for meeting a young woman at a bar in New Paltz. She was under age. That he only got two years probation and not 10 years hard time is that the prosecutors understood what had occurred.
Further, how exactly do we know she’s telling the truth about birth control? I have not said enough about women looking for a sperm donor and not admitting so (i.e., secretly out to get pregnant), which Larry Allen correctly categorizes as a form of rape. If she has the kid, the man is are on the hook for supporting she and it for 20 years.
Since every other fact of the sexual experience seems to have been turned into a weapon (by feminism, pushed on girls, made easy due to victim culture), it’s my assessment that ANY stage in the sexual setup is potentially a trap and must be treated as such until the probability is reduced to highly unlikely.
Very interesting essay. These young men have so much to consider when sex is so available as in Tinder. I always told my son, now 21, have her text you what she wants to “do”. At least it’s in writing.
yep I agree with that strategy, though a Venmo receipt would be better.
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Merrie,
By pregnancy plan, I mean what to do IF there is an unwanted pregnancy. Being on the pill is supposedly pregnancy prevention.
In my pregnancy prevention guidelines, everyone brings something to the table. It’s a two-party effort. This is something different.
In a pregnancy plan, the question would be: what if the girl has a hormone IUD and there is a pregnancy? What are the chances of complications and birth defects? How is that handed?
A pregnancy plan is: what would your parents try to make you do if you got pregnant? Would you be more inclined to have the child, or not?
efc
Personally I prefer “slut” types of women — those who are looking for fun, who have multiple partners, and whose primary intent is experience and not attachment. I usually prefer the company of sexworkers to “ordinary” women.
So there is no way I’m going to be judging that. I am that person and I love being that person (despite my ardent loyalty).
But the whole point of my essay is that we are in special times when a young man can end up on probation or serving prison time for a date. I know one personally — one of the sweetest young guys I’ve ever met, serving two years for meeting a young woman at a bar in New Paltz. She was under age. That he only got two years probation and not 10 years hard time is that the prosecutors understood what had occurred.
Further, how exactly do we know she’s telling the truth about birth control? I have not said enough about women looking for a sperm donor and not admitting so (i.e., secretly out to get pregnant), which Larry Allen correctly categorizes as a form of rape. If she has the kid, the man is are on the hook for supporting she and it for 20 years.
Since every other fact of the sexual experience seems to have been turned into a weapon (by feminism, pushed on girls, made easy due to victim culture), it’s my assessment that ANY stage in the sexual setup is potentially a trap and must be treated as such until the probability is reduced to highly unlikely.